NJ Governor Murphy wants to put INTENDED parents on OBC and not have a biology based record

Posting an email request from New York State Adoptee Equality:

In New Jersey, S482/A1704: on Governor Murphy‘s desk S482 provides that the intended parents in a pre-birth contract go on the original birth certificate.

No records are kept of the source of egg or sperm. No genetic connection and no homestudy is required for custody: custody is determined by who paid under the contract.

We have postcards – they can be ordered at the link below to transfer design to your own account and order from there. Please order cards and encourage your friends, family and contacts to complete and mail them in. If you want a few cards send an email to NewJerseyAgainstS482@gmail.com with your USPS mailing address.

Link to Read S482/A1704 Bill to put INTENDED PARENTS on OBC – – child custody by contract NOT best interst of the child

EVERYONE needs to contact Governor Phil Murphy encouraging him not to sign this into legislation. This bill will abrogates the rights of those born under contracts between adults who never meet each other or met in lawyers offices.

Mario Cuomo’s Commission called Surrogacy indistinguishable from Baby Selling.

The practice is contrary to what adoptee rights stands for.

Following is a link to the postcard design.  Postcards have the pre-addressed backside: 

POSTCARD S482/A1704 anonymizes infants for surrogacy market – PLEASE VETO

Why and How to Ask NJ Governor Murphy to Veto S482

New Jersey’s “gestational carrier bill” a/k/a “rent-a-womb,” twice vetoed by Governor Christie, has again passed both houses.

What is the law now? What will this bill do?

Right now, under the “In Re Baby M” decision, surrogacy contracts are not enforced by NJ courts. Surrogacy contracts still happen: they are governed by NJ Adoption Law. The expenses of surrogate mothers are paid, which can be as much as $60,000, and they have three days to sign the surrender.

The biological facts go on the original birth record. “Intended Parent(s)” must file for NJ adoption, have a home study. When their petition for adoption is granted, a new “birth certificate” is issued listing the intended parent(s) as having given birth to the child (with or without a womb). The original birth record is sealed. Under a law that took effect on January 1, 2017, as an adult the person whose birth was recorded has the right to that original birth record.

If this new law is signed, NJ will no longer make biology-based birth records for newborns conceived to be raised by others. The “Intended Parent(s),” those who sign the contract for the baby, will be on the original birth record — without NJ residency, without a home study, without a biological connection to the child.

Currently in New Jersey, every woman has the choice to abort or continue a pregnancy. No woman has to ask anyone for permission: not her husband, not her parents, not the baby’s father. It is her choice.

If signed, as Deputy Speaker Valerie Huttle confirmed in the Assembly Hearing, the “carrier” does not have that choice. Whether to abort or continue the pregnancy belongs to the “intended parent(s),” the contract signers.

One attorney testified in support of the bill: she said multiple pregnancies requiring “reduction” or risk to the mother would be rare because NJ doctors transfer only one embryo, or two if they know to a medical certainty the multiple pregnancy can be sustained. But that limitation is not in the Bill. There are no limits to the number of embryos that may be transferred. Note well that the reported industry norm is to transfer two or three embryos.

Proponents say the bill gives New Jersey’s infertile couples the right to have their own biological children. But the Bill does not require the contract signers to use their own genetic material: eggs and sperm are for sale.

Proponents say most who will use surrogates are New Jersey residents who will provide stable loving homes to children. But the Bill does not require residency, and there are no required inquires (like with adoption) to ensure the “Intended Parent(s)” intend to or are able to provide a loving home.

Governor Christie vetoed this bill twice, it has not been modified.

Ask Governor Murphy to Veto S482.

by mail
Office of the Governor
PO Box 001
Trenton, NJ 08625

via Twitter
@GovMurphy https://twitter.com/GovMurphy

by phone
609-292-6000 (operators do not take your personal information)

by fax
609-292-3454

 

2 thoughts on “NJ Governor Murphy wants to put INTENDED parents on OBC and not have a biology based record

  1. Doris – thank you so much for this article – adoptee activists are slowly becoming aware of how surrogacy interacts with adoption – how surrogacy is an extension of adoption ideology and intentionally creates chlldren to distress them by removal them from their mothers – and now the child you can adopt can be miraculously related to you via DNA!!! There is an abolitionist movement against surrogacy calling for a Convention for the Abolition of Surrogacy. Both adoption and surrogacy are part of the same child procurement ideology that is becoming pervasive in wealthier societies… It is important as anti-adoption activists that we do not forget our surro-people comrades and that we fight for their rights: to remain with their gestational mothers, to have biologically accurate birth certificates, to retain their identities, to stop the commodition of babies.

    1. Hello cmlynch,

      Thank you for your comment.

      For those of us who have been victims and survivors of adoption’s perversion, the link between adoption and reproductive technologies is painfully obvious.

      For the general public, it seems that the advantage of making a baby via anonymous sperm and egg donation, embryo transfers, gestational surrogacy and maternal-egg-gestational surrogacy is a means for the rich to create babies. They can pick an egg donor mother, a sperm donor father, and a surrogate mother from websites and infertility clinics that obtain donor gametes and rented wombs from women and men around the world. The end result is a baby to love.

      And who doesn’t love babies? People see the baby at the end and say, “Oh, how nice! Look at you! You’ve got a baby now!”

      The donors are paid and that makes this gamete selling, ultimately selling, and buying pre-born infants.

      The unthinkable (to you and to me) that poor women in third world countries are hired to rent their wombs to gestate these infants to term, and then give birth. High-priced surrogacy companies in wealthy areas and women who altruistically lend their wombs to carry to term their sister’s baby, or their neighbor’s baby, are mindlessly participating in a fad.

      It doesn’t matter if the latter two scenarios result in a baby that is handed over to the gestational mother’s sister or to the neighbor, or, a grandmother carrying to term her daughter’s biological child. What matters is much deeper. The infant created by artificial means and gestated by a non-genetic mother/host is clearly the victim here. The intended parents – the contractual parents – get the baby in the end.

      Like adoption, the intended parents of the child created and born via contract, are lobbying to pass into law a bill that would automatically put their names on the child’s birth certificate – before an adoption can even revoke the medical record of live birth and replace it with an amended birth certificate created upon adoption.

      Is it me? Or are these “intended parents” living in non-reality?

      This bill would put the intended parents’ names on the infant’s birth certificate. There is no logic behind this intentional falsehood.

      In an age where adoptees and our missing mothers are turning to DNA ancestry websites to find each other via undeniable and factual DNA matching, people are denying the absolute truth of the importance of genetic relatedness. The instinct to procreate, to live the experience of parenting a child who magically becomes “my own” somehow is stronger in some people who are oblivious of the consequences of their actions on the person they create and then adopt.

      These people are so intent on having a baby “of their own” that they are living in fantasyland. They are delusional. They are forcing their values, their wants, onto a child who will bear the burden for the rest of their lives.

      You may not know this, but I’ve been writing and publishing letters to the editor and other articles against anonymous sperm and egg donation, and against embryo transfers (not adoption because embryos are property not children and cannot be adopted until after birth), and against surrogacy for over 30 years.

      I spoke on the phone several times with Mary Beth Whitehead, the surrogate mother of Baby M, in 1986 and 1987. I had the opportunity to meet her lawyer, Harold Cassidy, at an adoption reform conference. Back then, anti-adoption activists thought we could be helpful to put an end to this. We have been trying, but the people with the money and power seem to be winning.

      We won’t know the outcome in our lifetimes. Our children’s children and the children of these donor-conceived and surrogate-born children will pick up the pieces of their lives and put a stop to this.

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